Showing posts with label pop culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pop culture. Show all posts

Monday, September 20, 2010

Let's Talk About *Freedom*


I've just started reading Jonathan Franzen's Freedom, a book I planned on hating but am actually kind of enjoying. I've disdained Franzen (yes, my negative opinion of him has been that intense) since the whole Oprah flap back at the beginning of the last decade. I wasn't put off by some great offense against Her Highness of Daytime, but by Franzen's apparent smugness and snobbishness toward the economic gift horse that is the Oprah Book Club, by his attitude that he and his work (The Corrections) were too good for the sudden popularity that followed from Oprah's stamp of approval, that the vulgar "O" printed on the book's cover immediately tarnished its contents by marking it as "female fiction." Didn't he want people to read his goddamn book?

Anyway, it wasn't just spite that motivated me to pick up Freedom. It's too long a book to be read for the sole (and self-indulgent) purpose of further stoking some anger within me. No, I wanted to understand and be part of a conversation about an "important" literary work within the culture. I place quotes around the word important not to be snarky or contrarian, but to underscore the fact that Freedom's import is that it has prompted discussion in the first place, without me having to evaluate how important a literary work it is. It's not often that a work of fiction is discussed so ubiquitously, with angles of debate so multifaceted.

First there's the issue of the book's literary merit. Freedom has been overwhelmingly embraced by critics, with a few poison pens written in gleeful dissent. Then there's the reaction to the book's critical reception, which has become a debate about the nature of literary criticism and what it means to be a Great American Novel. Add to the mix questions of what happened to the popular "middlebrow" novel, why most people no longer read fiction, and whether a woman writer of literary fiction could ever grace the cover of Time, as Franzen did a few weeks ago, and you've got yourself some robust cultural discourse.

The last bit, of the media's attitude toward women literary writers, immediately cuts off any mention of J.K. Rowling, she being the clichéd 800 pound, and multi-billion dollar, gorilla. Of course, the modifier "literary" in front of "fiction" is central to all of this. When in recent memory have people, like real reg'lar people, many of whom are also the erudite consumers of the NYT's Notable Books list, clamored about and discussed a work of fiction? In the last ten years, it's only been in the context of young adult and genre fiction: Harry Potter, Twilight, and Stieg Larsson's Millennium trilogy exhaust the list.

And so, we talk about Freedom. While that's a very good thing on the surface, what about Franzen has established him as the literary topic of discussion? It's not merit alone. There have been a number of great, and for the most part popular, contemporary works that did not make the same splash, books like The Road, The Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, Netherland, Tree of Smoke, and Middlesex, among many others. Perhaps it's because few other authors mix Franzen's prodigious ambition and ability with broad social commentary. While I almost completely disagree with Franzen's evaluation of America and Americans, there's no doubt that Freedom is the work of a writer in full control of his powers, one who is emphatically Making a Statement. Freedom's sweeping 23-page first chapter is proof enough of this.

Whatever the answer, the great debate over Freedom shows the reports of the novel's death within American culture are at least slightly exaggerated. And the townsfolk rejoice, however halfheartedly.

(Mirrored on Cultural Minefield.)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Tale as old as time...

My gram loves telling us (i.e. the grandchildren) how she and my grandfather were "third wheels" here in DC on a picnic date (both were in the Navy). Their roommates' date did not work out but my grandfather soon knocked on my grandmother's apartment door with flowers, asking for a real date. My gram still recalls with a twinkle in her eye about how hot that summer was and how sweat beads rolled down my grandfather's forehead and he nervously tried to hold her hand on the Mall.

My dad, after being rejected by mom and was told, "You're crazy!", followed my mom to Israel and wouldn't take no for an answer. Their first kiss was next to the Dead Sea after my mom pushed my dad in.

Now...THOSE are stories you can tell the grand kids about!

But will I get to have one of those stories? Whatever happened to the fairytale beginning that so many of the older generation seems to have?

Let's take the gay community and my circle here in the District. The "usual" methods include:

1) online - aka, goodbtmnDC messages hngtopShaw and poof, romance blooms;
2) at the bar - aka, 3 am, the dance floor is sparse, you look to your left, see someone cute and decide to grind for 30 minutes before telling them that your place is 3 blocks away;
3) Through friends - aka, "This is my friend John - we only slept together three times." "Only three times? Well...how do you do?"

Now some of you cynics might be saying, "Hey - this is how you hook up with guys for non relationship relations, not start relationships!"

Look to your left...look to your right...how many of you in relationships started with casual sex?

There is nothing wrong with casual sex. This blogger's opinion is that if you want to have casual sex with a random person, go at it! Just use protection to make sure that no gifts are left behind (for those that can't read through the subtext, STI's and unwanted pregnancies).

What is wrong, however, is the old myth of how relationships begin. I've been told so many times, "You'll never meet a boyfriend there!" or "If you really wanted a serious boyfriend, you would stop going out all the time!" (thank you, mother).

Sometimes, however, a one night stand turns into something. You wake up in the morning, look over to your left (or right, depending on which side of the bed you sleep on) and don't think, "Damn, still here...." but think, "Hey...he's still here!". And you don't mind.

In modern times, this is the fairytale. This is what so many of us single boys crave when we hit the clubs in a frenzied dance number. While sex may be on the forefront of our minds, we can't deny that little bit of ourselves that ask, "Could this be more than just sex?"

I'm not saying that all boys at the clubs and online and whatnot are trying for relationships or anything long term. I have plenty of friends who are plenty happy being single and out there and they are just looking for casual one nighters.

But for those that are (and you know who you are)...we have a new modern fairytale.

The DJ is your fairy godmother, waving her wand over the music, entrancing the crowd. The evil stepsisters trying to foil your every move is your ex-boyfriend who scowls at you in the corner, waiting for his opportunity to ruin your evening. The bartender is the neutral witch who provides you with enough potions to either gain courage or make a complete ass out of yourself. Your friends become the talking animals who encourage you, guide you, rescue you (sometimes the prince from afar is the wicked witch in disguise), and console you. And in the crowd is the one prince - the one guy who will sweep you off your feet.

Sure, we can also read that as Katy Perry's "California Gurls" starts blaring, you want to make your ex jealous, so you do two shots of Jameson and start making out with the first boy who grinds upon you before your friends drag you out of the situation.

Look at Disney - Cinderella had one dance before running out, getting the prince to call the kingdom guard to find her (guess the kingdom's department of defense had some men to spare). Snow White spoke to Charming once before getting exiled with 7 old men. Ariel rescued her man from an exploding ship and the next morning, totally in love with him AND MOVED to be with him. Aurora met her prince in the woods and fell in love, then ruined it by having a trippy experience involving needles. And Jasmine got weak kneed after one magic carpet ride. All one night stands with a little bit of magic thrown in.

So my fellow single boys - keep hope alive! As we go through life kissing a lot of frogs, don't give up! Don't let the cynics tell you that love can't be found at the bar. Sometimes, a once night stand is more than a one night stand and that is OK! Like those Disney princesses, we sluts too can live happily ever after.










Saturday, September 11, 2010

"Leave this house."

WARNING: I might be a little tipsy while writing this. Likely to meander slightly ;-)

After a lovely evening spent mostly in the company of people 7 or more years younger than myself, I got to thinking about the nature of inter-generational relationships and culture. Some of you may know that I'm a huge Oscar Wilde buff. I started wondering if Oscar had the same exasperating experiences that I had when dealing with his youthful compatriots. A little history:

In 1891, at the age of 37, Oscar Wilde met Lord Alfred "Bosie" Douglas aged 21. In correspondences with Bosie and his other youthful compatriots, Oscar regularly referenced Greek Mythological figures such as Hyacinth, Ganymede, Adonis, Narcissus, etc. as well as Shakespeare and other cultural icons of the times:
My dearest Bobbie, Bosie has insisted on stopping here for sandwiches. He is quite like a narcissus-- so white and gold. I will come either Wednesday or Thursday night to your rooms. Send me a line. Bosie is so tired: he lies like a hyacinth on the sofa, and I worship him.
What I realized is that in the era of TV and the dawn of pop culture, the concept of a shared lexicon has moved from the Victorian two-tiered, class-based system to the modern three-tiered, age-based system. In Oscar's time, the upper classes, be they 13 or 38, partook of High Culture (theatre, art, music, opera, literature, etc.), and the lower classes partook of Low Culture (penny dreadfuls, Victorian dance halls, etc.). Nowadays, we still have the High and Low culture which is still relatively class dependent (i.e. the demographics for the Metropolitan Opera are not the same as for WWE Smackdown) but we've got this concept of "Pop" culture that is about a specific moment in time. It is from this area that most of us pull our common cultural lexicon, our shorthand that we can use with one another. Unfortunately, the technological explosion of the past decades is rapidly shrinking the available pool of users of these lexicons.

In the 60s and 70s, TV expanded the horizons of pop culture, but the landscape was still relatively small. You could reference "Corporal Klinger" or say "Heyyyy" while popping two thumbs up and most age groups would get the references. In the 80s, cable came on the scene and further broadened pop culture, but until it's became nearly omnipresent, the divider wasn't based on age so much as it was based on whether or not you had cable. (To this day I still have no idea when someone references the early days of Nickelodeon as I didn't have cable except at my grandparents' house and then I only watched MTV, ya know, back when the M meant something ;-) In the past decade or so, Hollywood's relentless drive, fueled by the Internet's explosion, to find "the next big thing" has left us with a lot of "last so-so things" as our pop culture legacies. Unfortunately, "so-so things" tend to not make as much money as "big things" and thus disappear from the pop culture landscape much faster, though still leaving their mark on a particular age group.

This has led to another entertainment industry trend of recycling. This is their sometimes wonderful (Batman, Lord of the Rings, Star Trek), sometimes dreadful (Star Wars, Indiana Jones, The Karate Kid) attempts at "reimagining" or resurrecting older material to make it fresh for newer audiences. And there have been newer pieces of entertainment that have succeeded in bridging the divide (Harry Potter and Glee spring to mind).

All that said, maybe it's just me, but I'm nearly Oscar's age, and were I to find a Bosie for myself, I'd likely drive myself insane because I can't do things like reference "Saved by the Bell" to him because he grew up watching "That's So the Suite Life of iCarly Montana." Hyperbole to be sure, but admit it, you know you've (for values of you that are in my age range) done things like:
The irony is that my immediate reaction in many of these instances of dissonance created by the lack of shared pop culture lexicon is to quote Patrick Stewart in Jeffery (from about 1:15 to the money quote and this post's title at 3:05) which, of course, they've never seen.